One in three workers have experienced domestic violence, and for many, the violence follows them to work.
Often abusers will try to prevent their partners or ex-partners from getting to work, causing them to be late or have to miss work. Abusers may also excessively call, email, or text victims while they are at work, come into the workplace, or stalk the victim.
“[The abuser] would phone my workplace to see what time I had left, and phoned when I arrived to make sure I was actually going to work.”
Over 80 percent of people who experience domestic violence report that their work performance was negatively affected. Absenteeism and poor work performance can leave survivors vulnerable to discipline, and some even lose their jobs.
“Dealing with my ex-husband left me feeling anxious, tired due to lack of sleep. It affected the pleasure my work usually gives me.”
Work can be a safe haven for someone who is experiencing violence at home. The financial security of a job and some time away from their abuser can help a person experiencing violence seek support or make a plan to leave the relationship. However, the workplace can also be a dangerous place for people experiencing domestic violence, since abusers know where to find them.
Abusers also feel the impacts of their behaviour at the workplace. They may use work time or equipment to send abusive messages or otherwise plan and carry out violent acts. They may be preoccupied or distracted, affecting their work performance and leaving them vulnerable to discipline or job loss—which then puts the person targeted by their abuse at greater risk, as unemployment is a risk factor for serious injury or death.
Co-workers and others in the workplace can also experience the negative effects of domestic violence through increased workloads, stress, calls or visits from their co-worker’s abuser, and other potential safety risks.
“My co-workers were worried and disturbed by the physical and emotional evidence of the abuse.”
Unions must ensure that work is safe for everyone. Unions protect the rights of all workers, and if one worker is vulnerable, all workers are affected.
The CLC’s National Survey on Domestic Violence at Workshowed that significant numbers of union members experience domestic violence and that violence at home can put all workers at risk.
Unions build awareness about domestic violence and its impacts at work, and they work to support members and ensure employers live up to their obligations.
Unions build connection and a sense of belonging among their membership. This means unions play an important role in breaking the barriers of silence and isolation that, too often, come with domestic violence. Unions also help rank-and-file members and workplace representatives alike learn how to recognize the warning signs and risk factors of domestic violence at work and understand what supports are available. This helps put an end to the idea that domestic violence is strictly a private matter, and helps increase workplace safety.
“[I] lied about injury and absence due to fear and not able to admit to abuse at that time.”
Unions also act as a bridge for people experiencing domestic violence for reaching support. They also make sure that employers follow violence legislation, support workers who are targeted by abuse in making a safety plan, and help people experiencing abuse approach management with specific workplace accommodations such as time off.
Many collective agreements contain clear language about workplace violence. Today, unions are working to add new language that addresses domestic violence as a workplace issue.
This new language includes supports like:
It can be challenging for members to speak up when they see warning signs of domestic violence at work. This is why it’s vital that unions take the initiative to address domestic violence at work by building awareness and making it a bargaining priority. This is how unions send a message to the members that they can trust their union, and that help is at hand.
Learn more about language for collective agreements that unions can adapt in their own negotiations.
Domestic violence happens in all cultures and religions, in all ethnic and racial communities, at every age, and in every income group. However, some groups are more vulnerable to serious injury or death.
All domestic violence is harmful. However, when an abuser habitually controls and coerces their partner, the risk to the victim is greater. For more information on high-risk domestic violence, please click here.
Although people of all genders experience domestic violence, victims of high-risk cases with the most serious injuries are women and gender-diverse folks.
It’s crucial—for unions and employers alike—to recognize that different people face different levels of risk and may endure extra barriers to support and healing. This is why unions take special care to advocate for women with disabilities, women of colour, young women, Indigenous women, LGBTQ2SI folks, immigrant women and women in rural communities who may face different kinds of barriers.
All workers should be able to recognize the signs of abuse. Some of the warning signs that a co-worker might be experiencing abusive behaviour include when they:
Just because a worker possesses some of these traits does not necessarily mean they are experiencing domestic violence.
Please visit the Make It Our Business page for more information on warning signs of domestic violence at work.
Note: Never jump to conclusions when observing what may appear to be warning signs for domestic violence. Ask questions instead, and always stick to the facts when approaching someone you suspect may be experiencing domestic violence.
Note: It’s possible the co-worker may deny they are being abused. If you remain concerned, continue to reassure them they can talk any time, remain compassionate, and consider having an informal conversation with a trusted, designated person in the workplace.
If you think someone is in immediate danger, call 911.
If possible, discuss calling the police with the person experiencing domestic violence beforehand. When there is a threat of immediate danger, this might not be possible.
If the answer to either of the above is yes, you need to call the police.
What to consider before calling the police:
Members of some communities have more complex relationship with the police. It is useful to consider: